Wanna show a little initiative in bed? How about being provocative by trying a little dirty talk with your man. There’s no need to be shy or embarrassed. As long as you’re prepared and confident, your man will surely be pleased. In fact, most couples find that talking dirty actually enhances their love life and the benefits seems endless.
Below are tips that should help to make you more relaxed as you consider talking dirty.
Before you just jump into talking like a porn star, it’s important to first open up a safe, trusting dialogue with your partner, to make sure everyone is on the same page with this new direction you want to take in your love-life. Create an intimate setting where you can discuss how you are interested in exploring something you read that will make sex between you and your man hotter than it’s ever been. At this point, maybe whisper in his ear, “I want you to talk dirty to me during sex”. Giving your man permission to open up his wild side to you, will liberate your sex life. Allowing your man to take the first step, he won’t feel threatened when you start opening up your wild side to him. Take a moment though before you jump into the sack to discuss if there are any words, phrases, or scenarios that either of you might feel uncomfortable with.
All the groundwork has been laid and you’re ready to begin talking dirty to your man. The most important thing is to remain calm, don’t be embarrassed and don’t overthink the situation. Take a deep breath and just allow the words to flow effortlessly. Avoid using technical terms. It might be advisable to familiarize yourself with dirty words, so mull over the possibility of reading an erotic novel to get some inspiration.
Don’t be frightened of experimenting with dirty talk with your guy. Keep in mind, sex is supposed to be fun! So breath deeply, let it all go, and have the best sex that you’ve ever had. You’ll be overwhelmed at how steamy your lovemaking will get.